I was on walking patrol with
another officer early one evening walking along one of the downtown side
streets when a car drove up onto the sidewalk trying to intentionly hit us. We
could only assume his intention was to hurt us.
After he drove off the
sidewalk onto the street and drove away we got on our portable radios and
advised the dispatcher and other officers in the area of the vehicle
description and direction of travel. The
vehicle matching the description was observed and stopped. The subject driving
had no explanation for why he tried to hurt us other than the two of us were
cops, and he hated cops. He really could never supply a specific reason he
hated cops and specifically the other officer and me.
Another example was when I
was working one night and one of my fellow officers asked me to stop by where
he had a vehicle stopped. I got to his
location and he asked me to talk to the passenger of the stopped vehicle
because she was acting really strange toward him and he thought it might have
been because he was a male. I walked over towards the woman who was cowering
and said something to the affect “go ahead and do what you are going to do” I
told her I didn’t have the faintest idea what she was talking about. She
explained she was a black person and I was a white cop and she assumed I was
going to beat her. I told her I did not
beat on people. I told her I only used any physical force when needed and I had
any reason to cause her harm. I definitely understand why she felt that way,
but it actually hurt to know I was being judged by a few narrow minded, prejudicial,
and ignorant police officers.
This incident brings to mind ideas
that have always been dear to me. I studied a lot about predejudical behaviors
in my social pyscology and sociology classes in college. I also have personal experience
as a police officer in that area as two of the above incidents depict.
Worse yet is when we have bad feelings for a group
and if asked point blank why, no one from that group have caused us harm, yet
we dislike that group.
I ‘ve encountered persons who
didn’t like a particular segment of the population and I’ve asked them why. I often got the response “just
because”. Then if I ask, can they name a member of that group that ever hurt them they can’t name any specific incident or
can name only a few, yet they dislike or even hate thousands if not millions of
members of that group because of the actions of one or maybe none.
We all need to check
ourselves on a regular basis to remind ourselves not to judge and dislike all
persons of a particular group, subculture, race, heritage, profession etc. There is the reason in the first place to
judge and dislike, much less when the judgment and dislike has no legitimate
reason except maybe because of the actions of a very few members of that group.
Until Next Time,
Sally S